tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post3737466441580730491..comments2023-10-23T13:38:45.435-07:00Comments on Islamic Identity: Advice?Malekat_el7oriyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05512138531282714547noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-9012374185256645872009-02-13T13:00:00.000-08:002009-02-13T13:00:00.000-08:00Muslimah,thanks so much! and very great and practi...Muslimah,<BR/>thanks so much! and very great and practical idea... :)Malekat_el7oriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05512138531282714547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-32513778387622392802009-02-12T19:00:00.000-08:002009-02-12T19:00:00.000-08:00salam sis.i can totally relate to how u feel abt h...salam sis.<BR/>i can totally relate to how u feel abt having friends who claim to be muslims but dont really practise Islam.<BR/><BR/>just a suggestion.<BR/><BR/>maybe when u guys hang out together,u guys can just watch videos on youtube that has sth to do with Islam and being a good muslimah?<BR/>there are several short and kinda entertaining videos about shaytan's traps right? i hope u've seen it before.<BR/>well anyways,maybe u can get her to watch it with u.<BR/>it wont take more than 15 minutes,if im not wrong.<BR/><BR/>coz for me,when im trying to point out a friend's mistakes without sounding like a nag,i would like,ask the friend to hang out with me for a while and then i would show her the videos or send her islamic emails.<BR/><BR/>hope this helps :)<BR/><BR/>tc dear sisIffahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17823318501591525128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-34177452786313966932009-02-12T12:52:00.000-08:002009-02-12T12:52:00.000-08:00Salam Sumiya,thanks for your comment, and i can to...Salam Sumiya,<BR/>thanks for your comment, and i can totally relate...ya I'm kind of close to this girl so I don't think I can just leave her hanging...but I'm afraid that she's really not going to listen so I don't know..Malekat_el7oriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05512138531282714547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-67771580777814317232009-02-11T22:12:00.000-08:002009-02-11T22:12:00.000-08:00Assalam Alaikum dear,I used to have a 'friend' who...Assalam Alaikum dear,<BR/><BR/>I used to have a 'friend' who was 'muslim' and she used pull down my scarf so my whole head was exposed. She used to do it in a playful kind of way though it seemed more like bullying to me. I told her it wasn't nice but she just didn't quit. She didn't fast or pray and I just wasn't going to be able to change her mind. So I stayed away from her.<BR/><BR/>But in this case you seem to be close so it may not be that easy just deserting her?<BR/><BR/>You should tell her more about Islam subtly and get her interested. Think of it as an opportunity to make her a true Muslim.<BR/><BR/>Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-5245926162211236562009-02-11T02:26:00.000-08:002009-02-11T02:26:00.000-08:00SalamMasya Allah nice flowersSalam<BR/><BR/>Masya Allah nice flowers~PakKaramu~https://www.blogger.com/profile/09409943711766293201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-76082703867742260742009-02-10T14:10:00.000-08:002009-02-10T14:10:00.000-08:00Asalamu AlaikumI can't really add much to what has...Asalamu Alaikum<BR/><BR/>I can't really add much to what has already been said. I like the idea of having her come to halaqah with you. Do you have classes at the masjid that you go to? <BR/><BR/>Also the best form of dawah is to be a great example. So just keep being the best Muslimah you can be. Always have 'backup' for things you do from Quran and Sunnah and she can't argue with it. <BR/><BR/>May Allah guide her to the straight path and reward you for your concern.Jamilahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-69985705172247647452009-02-10T12:15:00.000-08:002009-02-10T12:15:00.000-08:00alsalamou alaikom all,thanks so much for you comme...alsalamou alaikom all,<BR/>thanks so much for you comments....they're really great! I will try to talk to her more and get her to understand islam, but if she doesn't listen then I guess I'll leave it to Allah to guide her to the path of islam...Malekat_el7oriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05512138531282714547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-17736520176716766062009-02-09T19:16:00.000-08:002009-02-09T19:16:00.000-08:00Thanks for joining my blog! Regarding this issue:W...Thanks for joining my blog! Regarding this issue:<BR/><BR/>Well, in retrospect or if it comes up again, there is nothing wrong with romantic LOVE in Islam between a man and a woman so long as it is within the parameters of marriage as Allah (SWT) designed. <BR/><BR/>To father: express that parents just want the best for us and that means also protecting us from harm, and encouraging us not to fall into trouble through bad decisions in terms of our conduct with other people (ie. boys, dress, prayer)<BR/><BR/>To lifting of hijab: Express your heartfelt desire to follow Allah (SWT) and covering is part of that. <BR/><BR/>I think its wonderful she has a caring friend like, but sometimes people have to go through life rejecting sound advice before they understand whats best. <BR/><BR/>SalamNawalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01655064922393559643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-36732601703995809072009-02-09T17:12:00.000-08:002009-02-09T17:12:00.000-08:00I am agree with asiya that's how I start to pratic...I am agree with asiya that's how I start to pratice islam, a friend of mine just invited me to halaqa and just teach me what was the real islam by her good behaviour mashallah!<BR/><BR/>may Allah HELPS U and HER aminemalizeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11580595393215092953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-84890510854969383192009-02-09T17:09:00.000-08:002009-02-09T17:09:00.000-08:00As-Salaam Alaikum,Thanks for the advice, I'll try ...As-Salaam Alaikum,<BR/>Thanks for the advice, I'll try it, I'm glad for any kind of help :)Malekat_el7oriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05512138531282714547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8852074746403297867.post-49582101492828823952009-02-09T17:03:00.000-08:002009-02-09T17:03:00.000-08:00As-Salaam Alaikum Sister,Maybe, when its time for ...As-Salaam Alaikum Sister,<BR/><BR/>Maybe, when its time for prayers, ask her to pray with you? Or try to have her hang out with some of your more practicing muslim friends--peer pressure is a really great way to influence people in a good way. Or take her to a local halaqa/ friday prayer.<BR/><BR/>Its great that you want to influence her positively. May Allah guide her and us all.<BR/><BR/>Salaam,<BR/><BR/>-AsiyaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com