Will somebody please enlighten me...

I'm begging you. Please enlighten me as to how a "terrorist" looks. Because obviously i'm not getting it. How do you associate an article or clothing to a murderer?!
my father was sharing with us a story about his day. And he said I was at work and i saw somebody come in to the room dressed like a soldier holding a ghutra  and agal in his hands. What is a ghutra and agal you may ask. A ghutra is basically a red and white scarf wrapped around the head (part of arab/khaleeji culture). Like this man:


The red and white scarf is the ghutra and the agal is the black thing holding it down. Anyways back with the story. So the man comes into the room where my dad's working dressed as a soldier and holding a ghutra and agal in his hands. My dad goes over to talk to him and ask him what he's holding (my dad full well knows what it was he's holding but he goes over to see what the man would answer him). So when my dad asks, the soldier man says 'I'm dressed up as a terrorist". Full ignorance. my dad just turns his back on him and leaves.

When my dad was sharing this "experience" with us I got really mad. Full on mad. Because truthfully it wasn't fair. Like how shallow are you going to be anyways? Go to the point of taking a person's CULTURE and using it as a sign of terrorism?

Oh, you know what? maybe I'll go and wear a mini skirt and tank top in public and be like I'm dressed as a "prostitute". That's nice isn't it? Just because some people have no background and culture doesn't mean they have to look down on other people's culture.

People piss me off. I'm glad I wasn't there because I would have slapped that man hard across the face. My parents can stand that stuff. They probably have enough wisdom to ignore the ignorant. Obviously I'm not that mature. And obviously I'm outspoken.

So will somebody please enlighten me as to how a terrorist LOOKS?

You mean you haven't seen it YET?!?!

The 4th Season of Little Mosque on The Prairie has come out!
To watch go to http://watchlittlemosque.com/?p=50.


Enjoy :)

Young People Who Rock



Sadiya Buta
Sadiya Buta, 15, is getting attention for much more than what she wears on the tennis court.
Sadiya Buta, 15, is getting attention for much more than what she wears on the tennis court.
It’s 100 degrees in Arizona, but that doesn’t keep Sadiya Buta off the court. She is part of one of the top doubles teams in her high school’s division. Like her teammates, she is clad in her school’s team shirt and skirt, but Sadiya also wears an extra layer of pants, a long sleeve shirt and a hijab, as part of her traditional Muslim beliefs.
The 15-year-old is looked at like a phenom in the sport, only picking up a racket for the first time last year. Her family recently came to Tucson, Arizona from a refugee camp in Kenya. Before leaving the camp in Dadaab, Kenya, Sadiya’s family was forced out of war-torn Somalia. The International Rescue Committee resettled Sadiya, her 5 siblings and her parents in the United States.
The adjustment for “Sandy,” as her friends call her, was a challenge, to put it mildly. She acts as a translator for her family, as they all learn English and her parents look for work. Despite the obstacles, Sadiya does whatever it takes to tackle her home life with school work and tennis, including waking up at 3 a.m. to complete her homework to keep up her better-than-perfect GPA. She admits that people at school made fun of her at first, but she paid no attention, determined to keep her eye on the ball.

taken from http://ypwr.blogs.cnn.com/

Anyone there?

"Fear more the sin when you are out of sight, it is where your witness is also your judge."-Imam Ali Bin Abi Talib

Because it's.....

RAMADAN KAREEM!!!





كل عام و انتم باالف خير

Surat Al Baqarah verse 185:

شهر رمضان الذي أنزل فيه القرآن هدى للناس وبينات من الهدى والفرقان فمن شهد منكم الشهر فليصمه ومن كان مريضا أو على سفر فعدة
من أيام أخر يريد الله بكم اليسر ولا يريد بكم العسر ولتكملوا العدة ولتكبروا الله على ما هداكم ولعلكم تشكرون

The month of Ramadan is that in which the Quran was revealed, a guidance to men and clear proofs of the guidance and the distinction; therefore whoever of you is present in the month, he shall fast therein, and whoever is sick or upon a journey, then (he shall fast) a (like) number of other days; Allah desires ease for you, and He does not desire for you difficulty, and (He desires) that you should complete the number and that you should exalt the greatness of Allah for His having guided you and that you may give thanks.

A hadith about the month of ramadan:

اوله رحمة اوسطه مغفرة آخره عتق من النار

The beginning of Ramadan is full of mercy, the middle of Ramadan is full of forgiveness and the end of Ramadan is the refuge from Hell Fire.

A great duaa to read everyday of Ramadan after isha prayers is Dua' al-iftitah (دعاء الافتتاح).




May Allah bless you all in this glorious month of mercy.

THE PICTURES of my trip

SO i made a promise and here I am posting the pictures of my trip to Europe (Holland, Germany, Belgium) :D

Through the window of the airplane, my adventure has just started :
The sun is starting to set...or maybe rise?


All the way up in the clouds thinking about blogger friends (see I think about ya'll even when I'm all the way up there :D)



And FINALLY FINALLY after long hours and many transits we start to land!! LAND HO!!


SO here goes, my collection of photos in Netherlands:

THE WINDMILL!!



The houses and the round-about :D




THE HUGE LOOMING CHURCH

Uitgezonderd is bike lane exit I think.


The beautiful bay





Peacock!


The horse carriage taking you for a tour around the Queen's old palace (turned into a museaum)




The beautiful Gardens


Huge fountain


Full view of the museaum/palace


Beautiful greenery


On our way to AMSTERDAM!



The cool bridge


And because I have a soccer fanatic brother, we went to see the Ajax Stadium


Came back to the village/city I was residing in.


It rained so hard it was like a mini-flood, the cars could barely drive




A city called Zutphen in Holland (it's like where tourists go to visit)








Another shot of the beautiful bay we had picnics at



On the way to Brussels, BELGIUM!


Pretty buildings and scenery (the spoke french there)








I think this is in Bocholt, Germany


Beautiful building, looks like the picture on a postcard doesn't it?


The stores in Germany


Hot air balloon taken from the balcony In Holland


I guess not alot of people get the chance to see a rainbow in Holland, I'm one of those luck ones :D


Hope you enjoyed it!
Wa alsalmou alaikom wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh.

**malekat_el7oriya** all these photos are abosolutley COPYRIGHTED you may not use unless you get my permission
jazakomallahkhairan

GUESS WHOOOOOOOS BACK!

ya got back last night, and i'm extremely exhausted and caught halfway through jet lag. my trip was great though! Holland is gorgeous!! anybody who lives there is like so lucky! We went touring around the cities and went to Belgium and Germany. It was like a tour and a mini-shopping spree, in a way. My camera isn't hooked to the computer so i can't upload the pictures yet, but i promise my next post will be full of pictures :)

salamou alaikom all!
btw thanks to all my followers and i'm sorry i didn't update in europe :(

No need for argument.




So i've been pretty disgusted with the "anonymous" sunni/shia haterz comments on some blogs. I really hate how some of these commenters are really judgmental about things that are really wrong. I hate how they're sometimes like "sunnis are better because... and shias are backwards stupid people" or "shias are better because... sunnis are backwards stupid people". And although i do believe everyone is entitled to their own opinions, I still think that when you're making a comment, you should atleast be able to provide CORRECT information and in a civil manner. Because seriously, if you want to know about the life choices of others, then ask THEM, otherwise you really don't wanna know.

And anyways about the whole sunni-shia rant, I think that there really is no need for it. I mean people who think that sunnis& shias don't need to "be together" or shouldn't "be civil" with eachother, need to come join our family sometime.

My mom is sunni, and my dad is shia, and they fell in love and have been successfully married for 19 years and there has been not ONE day where the topic of sunis or shias came up between them. I mean seriously, at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what "part" of islam you are, it's the fact that you're muslims alone that counts.


*btw: inshallah i'll be leaving for europe tomorrow. I'll be back blogging when we arrive there safely inshallah. :D
and of course i will be taking many pictures and posting them :D

Read Vision of Truth


Well what can I say? I'm hooked too. So don't just stand here and gawk! Go read Vision of Truth!! It's an amazing story by my lovely fiend Asmi. ^-^ Spread the word guys. Spread the love!





Thanks to Saafir for giving me the idea of this post ^-^

100 FOLLOWERS! :D




"Those who are not grateful to people are not grateful to God"
-Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him.
I am so grateful to all my LOVELY LOVELY followers on this blog! Thanks so much for being so supportive and kind! i love you all!!

I can't believe I now have 100 followers :D

And with this opportunity, I would like to sincerely thank all my 100 followers! *hugs*
Thanks for always being with me!I love you guys :D
<3 <3

I was kinda hoping I could do a special post, but i couldn't think of anything (islamically related of course) special.

Inshallah I will think of something though. And I promise ya'll to post a well-written, touching post soon.

Love all of you dearly though. Take care!

you're jealous

My will power isn't doing too well. I'm fasting. Just because...and i still have 2 more hours. I was fasting yesterday too. I made it through but i was dying of thirst and hot. I said i was thirsty atleast 30 times yesterday but today's better. :) we're on summer vacation!! Actually school was over since June 5th but i didn't tell you, I didn't want all the little people upset at me cuz i finished school and they're still sweating through exams.
I'm PSYCHED! GUESS WHAT GUESS WHAT GUESS WHAT???

My brother and I are leaving for EUROPE on Sunday!!!!! We're going to da Netherlands YO! :D
You're jealous!!! YOU ARE JEALOUS! YESSSSSS YOU ARE! hahah. suckers. lol. So far i know how to say................ nothing in dutch. But oh well. Because you know what? YOU know WHAT?? Money speaks every language :) hahha. And you know why you're even MORE jealous? Because it's Hijab heaven there. It'll be such a change from living here in the states. Out here, there's nothing in store except a bathing suits, and...short shorts....and tank tops and bathing suits....
but when some genius discovers how to use these items and make them hijabified will be the day I will LOVE living in the U.S.:

3 Summer Essentials "Hijabified"

BATHING SUITS!!
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EXTREMELY SHORT SHORTS:

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TIGHT TANKTOPS!!



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Modest huh??


Give them a try :)

I hope the sarcasm doesn't get lost over the web when i hit the "Publish Post" button

Our grapes are growing and other pictures

We have like 6 grape vines that we planted last year and now they're growing!! so we officially have home-grown grapes!! :) yay!




And you can't possibly tell me you don't know what grape leaves look like!! ah well...here they are:



My mom and i went outside yesterday and hung out on the porch. It was so sunny and humid and hot and ick. Then all of a sudden the clouds started coming in:

And more and more clouds until it got really dark



It started to storm and rain and thunder then-believe it or not it started to HAIL. Fat snow chunks for about an hour, in JUNE! and i live in the u.s.a so it's supposed to be HOT here NOT hailing :)

Then about 2 hours later the clouds start to clear up and the sun comes up again...



...and I resume the rest of my quest for pictures.
Our side yard:



Yellow flower ma mama planted (sorry i have no clue what it's called-i know i'm ignorant but so what?


Purple flowers!


Our jasmine plant (conveniently known as yasmeen is arabic ;p)



And a close up on the flowers:


And my mom's cup of tea placed beside our colorful pansies:




And i couldn't resist the temptation of putting my chucks in the picture:



teehee :)

Ideas?


I want to start another blog. But i'm not really sure about what i should do it for. I was thinking about making it private/by invitation but i changed my mind. I'm kinda thinking about making a group blog, but i want to know if anybody would be interested in taking part in it. I'm still not sure though. So any ideas maybe?

The real reason and 2 tags

Ok so you're probably wondering where i've been. WHy I haven't posted. this is my reason:
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SOOOOO what's the REAL reason behind why malekat hasn't been posting???!!

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:) and even though i haven't been posting/commenting doens't mean i forgot, I"M STILL READING your posts even though i don't leave me mark ;P

And now onto the tags:

Tagged by Asmi/Quick it girl
1. Do you think you are hot?
erm?!
2. Upload your favourite picture of you. noooooooo way!!
3. Why do you like that picture? Because it makes me laugh when i see it :)
4. When was the last time you ate pizza? uh....2 weeks ago?
5. The last song you listened to? Crash n burn by Savage Garden
6. What are you doing right now besides this? Chewing gum, breathing, typing...
7. What name would you prefer besides yours? mine is too awesome to change ;p
8. People to tag:


9. Who is number 1? A sweet muslimah blogger :)
10. Number 3 is having a relationship with? uhhh that's not my business!!
11. Say something about number 5? ACK! I LOVE HER!
12. How about number 4? A super-cool muslimah :P
13. Who is number two? Awesome hijabi friend of mine
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#2 Tag
celebral seductress has tagged me...

8 Things I'm looking foward to
Summer vacation!!
Goin' to europe this summer !!!
Last day of school o_O
Seeing my cousin
umm...EID!
Ramadan
starting 8th grade ;P * ya i know i'm so young!*
And...learning to drive

8 Things I did yesterday
Woke up at 8:30
had a quick breakfast
Went shopping for our trip
Went to cvs
Teased my brother about his sling (he hurt his shoulder)
Found out I had a twin sister living in Fiji :P *hahha* jk!
E-mailed people
Read some book....

8 Things I wish I could do
White-water raft

Recite the whole quran by memory
Drive
Sky-dive
speak spanish fluently...i know some spanish just not fluently enough
Get a job
Stop being lazy
FLY!!

8 Shows I watch
little mosque on the prairie
and that's it....

8 Things I love
Family,
Hot chocolate
colors
hijab
ISLAM!!
cookie moster
nutella!
waterfalls

ANNNNNNNND i tag anyone who wants to do this...

Of shoe closets and fridges

you guys that know me, know that there is nothing i like better than snapping a picture or two. :) so with that said, I will go on with my story:
My dad and mom have been looking around for a little freezer to store extra things in for some time. So today like an hour ago, my dad walked in and he was like
"Hey (mom's name) can you help me unload the freezer i just got from the truck?"
My mom of course surprised, agreed. :)
So the next thing I see is them walking up up the stairs to the entrance of the house hauling a black freezer looking thing.
Then they find out that it's NOT a freezer but a fridge, and they're like 'what the heck are we gonna do with a fridge?!'
and so they look around the house to see where to store it. Our house has alot of storage rooms, but they're all full. Except one.
The shoe closet. :D

And now for the pictures :) :







i cracked up when i saw the view :P
And so i ran and got my digital camera and snapped shots of a shoe closet and a fridge :)

They're probably moving it someplace else though... x(

Cold words


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I listen to the girls cracking jokes denying God's existence. Life was life. They said they didn't believe in some old man with a beard who decided he was God. What the hell?! Is that really their image of a God? A man with a beard?! Astaghfurallah.
I'm scared of how much they don't understand.
They say there is no heaven.
No hell.
Nothing happens.
No God.
I want to scream. I feel pain with their words. I want to yell out. Tell them about Islam. But i know they won't understand, they can't.
frustration just overwhelms me, i hate not being able to talk. Silently I disagree fiercely. Silence is not consent. It is objection.
They say you need Jesus in your life.
Inside I smirk.
I laugh.
I'm the one who has Jesus in my life.
They're the ones who need him.
They're the ones crying out for help.
Praying for the creation to save them.
Not God.
Inside I am an emotional turmoil.
They blame oppression of Islam
They blame stereotypes
All I wanna do is tell them to stop.
Turn them right.
Tell them the truth
But whenever I open my mouth
I run out of words
I imagine putting my hand in murky water
Quicksand
That drags me in.
There is so much i have to say
Not enough time.
Not enough words
To describe anything.
They wont listen. They wont understand. I know.
Silently i object to their synthetic views
Corrupt.
They are oppressing themselves.
They wont accept the truth.

OMG GUESS WHO'S BACK!



lol :P I"m back!!!!!!!! wohoo! it feels so good to go on the internet and look at my blog again! Our internet connection has FAILED terribly, actually it hasn't been working at all and we finally got it to work yesterday! MY LIFE SUCKS WITH NO INTERNET! ;p lol i sound like some spoiled girl with no life. Well....actually the last part is true. no just kidding! i have a life, though suckish at times but still, it will have to do!!!
AGHHHHHHHHHHHH i missed you guys soooooooo much! *runs up and hugs you* (well only if you're part of the female gender.)

so how is life going for ya'll (got my little southern accent ther ;p)? the weather is awesome over here, by awesome i mean rainy and sunny at the same time :) no rainbows though, if i see one i'll catch it on my awesome digital camera.



I can't believe school is about to end!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am so ready for summer vacation, although the weather clearly isn't.

my mom and i were shopping at tj maxx and we were really happy cuz they had LOADS AND LOADS AND LOADS of scarves (perfect shayla style super gorgeous!) and they're pretty cheap compared to ones that are sold online. they cost about $10.00 but they're really good material. :)

Happy monday by the way! although i don't think anybody says that. well...

The tree we will always remember



Everyone knows the story of Prophet Adam (peace be upon him), and when i read it in the quran, i catch myself thinking 'If it was me, I wouldn't have done that, I wouldn't have eaten from the tree after Allah specifically told me not to.'
And then I realize how wrong I am. if I was in prophet Adam's place, I would have done the same thing. I would have eaten from the tree. because isn't the tree representing something haraam? Something Allah (s.w.t) clearly forbade. Life now is full of trees just like that. But instead of trees they are material things, they are temptations.

Arent hatred, malevolence, mistrust, dispondency, drinking alcohol, pre-marital relationships, adultery,murdering, gambling, backbiting, cheating, theft, oppression, telling lies,being arrogant, doubting Allah (s.w.t) and having too much pride all like trees Allah has forbidden us to eat from? And yet how many of us can truthfully say to ourselves that we have never tasted the fruit of at least one of these trees? There is a reason that the story of Prophet Adam (peace be upon him) is in the Quran. there is a reason it happened. And if we submit ourselves to the temptations of the world we might never taste the sweetness of paradise.

In surat Al Baqara-Ayat 30-39: "And recall when your Lord said to the Angels, I am about to place a vice-generate in the earth, they said, "will You place such who will spread disorder and shed blood'? And We praise You commending You and sanctify You; He told, 'I know what you know not'. And Allah the Exalted taught the names of all things to Adam. Then presenting all shines before the Angels said, "Tell the names of these, if you are truthful." They said 'Sanctity to You", We know nothing, but what You Taught us, no doubt, You alone are the Knower and the Wise. He "said, "O Adam tell them the names of all shines, when Adam had informed them of the names of all, He told, had I not told you that I know all the hidden things of the beavers and earth, and I know whatever you disclose and whatever you hide. And recall, when We ordered the angels to prostrate before Adam, then all prostrated save Iblis. He refused, boasted, and became disbeliever. And We said, "O Adam dwell you and your wife in this (paradise) and eat freely thereof where you will but do not approach this tree lest you become of the transgressors. Then Satan made them slip and got them out from the place where they lived, and We said, "get down, one of you is the enemy of the other and you have to stay in the earth and to make use of it for a time. Then Adam learnt certain words from his Lord so Allah accepted his penitence. Surely, He is the alone most Relenting, Merciful. We said, "you all get down from the paradise then if any guidance comes to you from Me, then who-so-ever followed My guidance, they have no fear nor any grieve. And those who disbelieve and shall belie My signs, they are the people of the hell, they have to live in it forever. "

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Waste of life

I've been feeling a little down lately, and so many things are coming my way. I don't know how to explain anything anymore, so the only thing I could do was write a poem:

What a waste

The way the calm air lifted me

Carried me along

Watched the lives

Of others

How they moved

How they fell

How they could get up

Dig themselves out of the hole they’re in

And stand tall

Once again

I kept track

Saw progress

But somewhere along the lines

He fell

Down hard

Crashed into

The dirt covered ground

And lay there

Gathering the sins

Purity shed

Like dead skin

Face darkened

Where there might have been light

I waited

For him to stand

Again

To get up

And proclaim

The beauty

Of life

Yet he remained

On the dust swept

Dirt engraved road

Thinking this was life

Thinking he was right

He didn’t know someone

Was watching

From a distance

Marking the moves

He made

Didn’t know

Why he wouldn’t

Laugh anymore

He never reached his hand out

For help

For someone to lift him up

Instead he took people’s hands

And dragged them in

Into the hole he’d dug himself

Audience around him

Thought he was so cool

Let it get to his head

Told him

So much

So many times

Islam was more

Rich

Valuable

But he didn’t listen

Wasted his life

Living a lie

Dwelling in the gap

Where Islam should have been

But now replaced by life

By amusement

When his soul deserved

More

He reached the top

Only to find

There was nothing there

But emptiness

And the hell of a life

People lived.

He watched movies

Listened

To music

When he could’ve used

A couple of prayers

To brush up those

Mountain-sized sins

I saw him

Fall deeper and deeper

Desperate for help

Yet somehow not managing to realize

That he had fallen

Entertained

By freedom

Mistook life

For the end

When it was only the beginning

My heart broke

Wanting to do something

To make him stop

Digging himself deeper

But everywhere I turned

I saw a dead end

A stop sign

Flashing in my face

I was trapped

I tried to reach out

Tell him to hold on

Tell him I could lift him up

But he refused

He was too far down

For me to reach

He continued to live

Lies

Sins

And thought it was

Perfection

Thought it was

The truth

Yet he had mistaken the truth for lies

And lies for the truth

He had given up Islam

For a life

Of amusement

And I shivered

Knowing what would come

Dark days

Fire of hell

Stared him in the face

What a waste

Of such a young life.


Corrupted minds

It's funny how people accept teen pregnancies, perverted minds, shows promoting sex, young children dating and inappropriate clothes just because it's "style"

It's funny how they refuse, reject a religion that teaches respect, purity, and truth.

I was talking to my friend yesterday and she brought up the topic of shows on T.V. she asked me if I watched the show "Sweet Life" and I said no, cuz i don't have cable. I asked her to tell me about it, and she did. This is how she explains it:





A girl becomes pregenant with a drummer from a band and when her parents find out they want to put the baby up for adoption or something. Later she finds out that that same drummer has made alot of girls pregenant and has a prostitute working for him. The girl also ends up having sex with her step brother.

By the time she's explained that my mouth is wide-open. The first question I ask her is " And your mom doesn't mind you watching something like this?!"

People, keep in mind that she's only 12 years old. 12!!

She answers me by saying " Oh she doesn't really care, like my aunt will call me and we'll be discussing the show for like an hour"

What? really? The mom doesn't care that her 12 year old daughter is watching a show full of sex, and prostitutes?

Wow. I mean the only thing i watch are the local channels which only have the really really cute cartoons teaching toddlers how to spell and read and write and add and subtract numbers.

And this isn't the first encounter I've had with one of my friends who can watch shows like that. i have friends who watch a show called 'Juno' with their families, and what is this sow about? basicaly teen pregenancies, perverted minds and sex.

All the shows seem to promote sex now, and the people who make the shows KNOW that adults aren't the only ones watching these. I mean all of a sudden it's like a show that doesn't have a slutty girl as a main character or doesn't have some type of dirty dancing or singing isn't a good show anymore!

And parents don't do anything to stop it! They watch these shows with their children.

And then when they're daughter gets pregenant when she's 16 they kick her out of the house or treat her badly. I mean what do you expect? It's like some parents are purposefully trying to corrupt their childrens mind.

that's why you don't seem to find pure, innocent children anymore. Everything around them seems to be promoting sex or style.

The clothing styles are made to reveal half of their body. And half the time, the girls wearing these clothes are no more than 10 years old! Believe me I've seen so many girls like that, I just think, why are the parents not doing anything to stop it?! I mean when i was 10 I ran around and played and played and played. i wasn't worried about what shirt would look cuter with these pants, or which pants made me look better! For God's sake I used to wear a pair of loose jeans any shirt i could find.

And now, the pressures of school has got everyone running around looking for a boyfriend, or girlfriend. It's just what made you cool. But why? And above that the parents don't care, that their children are 11 years old when they start dating. They think it's natural. NATURAL. They were like that when they were little so why not their children?

And then they complain why their children grow up so fast. They ask is there any way to stop the corruption of innocent minds?


The answer: Follow Islam.